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Unrequited Love

Sat Oct 24, 2009, 5:50 PM
Today I read something in my Biology textbook that explained my confusing feelings for you. I always thought that I would feel more relieved over anything else after I was able to explain to myself how I felt about you, but now I just feel even more shitty about it than usual.

Researchers have "found that unrequited love is distressing for both the would-be lover and the rejecting person. Would-be lovers had both positive and intensely negative feelings about their failed relationship. The rejectors, however, felt uniformly negative about the experience. Unlike the rejectors, the would-be lovers felt that the attraction was mutual, that they had been led on, and that the rejection had never been clearly communicated. Rejectors, in contrast, felt that they had not led the other person on; moreover, they felt guilty about hurting him or her. Nevertheless, many found the other person's persisence intrusive and annoying; they wished he or she would have simply gotten the hint and gone away. Rejectors saw the would-be lovers as self-deceiving and unreasonable; would-be lovers saw their rejectors as inconsistent and mysterious."

Well doesn't that sound extremely familiar. FML.


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Nixxxie:

Cat lover.
University student.
Abovetheinfluence.
Natural redhead.
Fond of horror flicks.

Considers herself a snowflake
stuck &melting in the middle of
this horridly blazing place called
t h e s u n s h i n e s t a t e .

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:iconglowsorb:
Thank ya for the fav!:D

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Funny vid of Bill Kaulitz------->[link]
:kiss::heart:Bill Kualitz:heart::kiss:
Ever notice that the word "studying" is "student" and "dying" put together?:o
:iconfallenlies:
hey, you dont happen to live on the east coast do you?
:iconn-musso:
Why? :p

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Sincerely,
Nix
:iconfallenlies:
well you had on your profile something about the sunshine state. pretty sure thats florida...or something... and im visiting my friend who lives in sarasota florida in a few weeks. just wonderin i guess
:iconn-musso:
Lol, yeah, Florida.

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Sincerely,
Nix
:iconfallenlies:
well you do know that florida is where old people go to die right? just making sure XD

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